
This is for you if..
đ”âđ« You canât stop overthinking his texts, checking your phone, or wondering what you did wrong
đ Your heart drops into your belly when you notice "the shift"
đ You secretly wish you can detach and not care when it comes to men and dating
đ€Â You worry what he's thinking of youâor what he's always doing
đ„ș You feel regret and embarrassment after double or triple texting him
đ You feel rejected or ignored and can't stop replaying convos in your headÂ
đ You find yourself dating unavailable or hot and cold men that spike your anxiety or..
⚠You're with a new healthy guy but your past hurt makes you fixate on his texts or thoughts
The reason you're overthinking him isn't because of how much you like him..it's because you're feeling unsafe in your body.Â
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When you learn how to feel safe & calm in your body, dating becomes less about overthinkingâand more about showing up with clarity and confidence.
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I'm ready to chill the *f* outYour 3 step process:
Stop
Interrupt the "what if" or "maybe.." thoughts that drive you to spiral and feel bad. And discover what's driving these racing thoughtsâin the first place.
Feel
Move the anxiety through your body so you can stop pretending you're okayâand actually be okay. No more tight chest or pounding heart. Â
Calm
Show up as cool, calm and collected so you can respond from secure woman energy. Approach him from a place of power versus panic.Â
This process works because..
â reading about attachment styles goes out the window when triggered
â psychoanalyzing him wires your brainâfor more anxiety
â trying harder, doing more or tip-toeing around exhausts you
A little bit about me..
My name's Cynthia and I'm a Somatic Therapist & Coach for Dating and Love Attraction. I help women attract healthy love with high quality men. But here's the truth, I'm no different than you. I remember when I used to:Â
âobsess over what men were thinking about me
âlook past the red flags and get played..yet again
âsecretly hope he'd change if he saw how caring and loving I was
âpush away high quality men with my own emotional unavailability

đ§ What Happens When You Use My 3-Step Process
When you use this method, you stop spiraling in your headâand start responding from your inner power.
Hereâs what that looks like in real life:
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He pulls away suddenly...
Instead of spiraling or blaming yourself, you pause, drop into your body, and reconnect to your worth. You donât chase. You give spaceâand observe.
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Heâs inconsistent with texting or plansâŠ
You donât overanalyze or assume youâre being âtoo much.â You ground yourself, then respond with clarityâor make a clean decision to step back.
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You feel rejected or ignored after opening up...
You move the discomfort through your body instead of getting stuck in your head. You honor your vulnerability and donât shrink yourselfâregardless of how he shows up.
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Youâre in the early stages of dating and feel anxiousâŠ
You notice the trigger, regulate in-the-moment, and come back to calmâso you can show up with secure energy and attract healthy men.
When your body feels safe, your mind stops overthinking.
This process is your shortcut to emotional safety, secure energy, and strong self-trust.
âĄïžYou'll also get:⏠ïž
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Bonus #1:Â
Is it You or Is it Him? Worksheet
 Detailed prompts on how to figure out whether it's your own insecurity being triggered or  if his behaviors are driving "you crazy." Â
Bonus #2:
Stop Overthinking "on the go"
 3 mini scripts to screenshot and take with you "on the run" so you can start  being more present when you're out and aboutÂ
Ready to stop the spiral and start feeling secure?
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P.S. I'd love to hear how this course went for you đȘâ€ïžâđ©čÂ
Send me a message on IG xoxo